2015 must have been a tough year for many couples out there. Relationship breakups is what a few of my close friends are experiencing now. Childhood couples who spent almost a century together, that I could have foresee them walking down the aisle hand in hand didn't make it. Couples who got together despite overcoming their great differences eventually didn't make it. Couples who fought for their love, spent so much effort in securing the relationship didn't make it through as well. Tears, disappointments, break downs, heart break, emptiness are all their experiencing now. 

Going through all these with my friends made me realised so much about relationship and how i see myself in them when i left my relationship last year. It really hurts me to see them hurting. Well i truly wished that the best is yet to come and that they deserve better :) 

I've learnt that:

1) When a person changed for no reason, the reason must be due to a third party

2) Even if a person has so much love to give and could even tolerate infidelity, once a person's change, they could no longer appreciate and receive the love from you

3) People moves on quickly. You may still be hurting, but they could have already enjoying themselves with other people's accompany

4) People who said they have commitment issues are selfish being. All they want is to satisfy their needs of having fun without sparing a thought on people who really cares for them

5) When you love a person more than yourself, mistakes are no long mistakes

6) If freedom is all he need, the greatest love for him is to let him go 

7) Never invest too much in a relationship, the more you invest, the more hurt you get

8) The world has changed, being kind and pretty is no longer what people are looking for. One must be fun loving, out spoken and bitchy sometimes . Doesn't matter if he/she is an asshole or not. 

9) Sometimes trusting yourself is better than trusting others. 

10) Sometimes friendship is better than in relationship.